Now I'm Walking Away

[Doodi]

As horrible as this is going to sound...I really wish I could get my H to be where you, Pinhead, are right now? My IC has compared me to a cornered puppy that is lashing out because I feel so trapped. I just can't get him to understand that he needs to take a step back. But that's my issue.

I told her that I thought staying together for the girls would be a bad idea. That we'd be setting the wrong example for them about what a healthy relationship is supposed to look like. I don't want my daughters thinking roommates and fsckbuddies are a normal marriage.

This is the best action, IMO. Taking care of yourself and the girls is all you need to worry about. Anything with your wife will happen if it's meant to. You can't force it, fake it or will it into existence. You sound very confident and sure of yourself and I hope that continues to provide you the strength you need for your girls.

Smooches,
Doodi