Yes, it sounds like your approach is working. At least in the sense that you two can work together. I also agree not to tell people at work. There is no sense in making things harder for you two if there is a R.

For me. Things are not good. I'm the optimistic type and it got the best of me. Good luck to you and keep having hope.

M:37
W:34
M:4 years
T:6 years
No Kids
A disclosed - 9/1/2010
W asks for separation - 10/19/2010
Moving on - 10/24/2010
A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010
Content - 3/1/2011
Served - 3/18/2011
D Day - 6/20/2011