Two questions:

1. Can the Network Magic/Spector Pro/Eblaster programs be potentially detected by a computer-savvy spouse. My H is very computer-savvy, and I worry he'd easily discover any of those things. Especially if I mentioned I knew something (that was done through his computer), but didn't reveal the source. I wouldn't be surprised if he hunted down how I figured it out.

2. Does anyone have any experience with those "bluetooth mobile phone spys", like e-stealth.com, or bigdadyspy.com (or any others like it)? Do they work, and anyone have experience with them being detected by a technical-minded spouse?


Me: 29
Him: 30
Married: 2 years
Together: 13 years
No kids
Bomb: 6/4/10
Started MC: 7/16/10