I agree with Michelle. I have also seen much damage done when a BS exposes an affair and blabs everything to the WS's family.. More often than not, the WS's family STILL takes the side of the WS, so I have rarely if ever seen it do much good for reconciliation.
The times I have seen exposure work the best for reconciliation is when the BS exposes it to the wife or husband of the WS's affair partner, NOT the WS's own family.....
There is nothing wrong in what Michelle said. If you go back and read it she only was giving wise counsel to BE CAREFUL with things like this. She is correct. It CAN backfire.
