Working on my W's MLC - the saga continues III

[MHL]

I don't know if it's the gloomy weather or perhaps the fact I know my W will never love me.

Hey Fixer,

Cheer Up !!!!! You can now read minds and see into the future!!!! Pretty darn awesome........Right??

Oh wait, that was actually on a cartoon my son was watching this morning.

Sorry to be so harsh, especially when your feeling down but you have now idea what your W is thinking nor how she is going to feel in the future.

I know you have been at this a long time and so you know not to get wrapped up in what she may or may not be thinking.

Look, I get being down.....trust me I know it, come on over to my house tomorrow night and we will drown some beers!!!

Today I feel sad. I've never felt as sad as this before. I hope it will pass.

It always passes, the sun will rise again tomorrow and the next day too. Let the feeling wash over you, experience it, get it out......

Then

When the sun DOES rise tomorrow, pull yourself up, dust yourself off and get on with "fixer's" life. I hear you talking about many things that are well within your control but "fear" is controling you.

You can and will survive and be happy without your W. Don't get me wrong here, I hope you and your W reconcile and your wife finds those feelings of "love" for you again, however if that does not happen.....you WILL be OKAY!!!

You are a victim if you chose to be one. The choice is yours.

Cheers