I think that's a really good idea OT; I know it means a lot to me when my H has put thought in to a present for me.

Lotus, wow. What a long way we have come. We just celebrated our 24th wedding anniversary and like your H I believe that H and I were fated to be together, and my H has said the same also. I feel so lucky that we have worked our way through what happened and I can't think of anyone else I would rather be with.


I cherish the friends I have made on here and those that I have email contact with. Both the boards and the email support help(ed) me keep my sanity at times when I found, (and sometimes still do find - although my issues are quite different now), life very tough.

Doc - I did get your email about the boards being down when I couldn't get on - thank you. I am so pleased the drought is over......I know it's taken a long while but it does go to show that patience CAN pay off. Just keep remembering who you are and don't revert to 'needy'. Both of you have worked at your M in your own ways- it would be nice to 'know' what your W's views about it are.....but not necessary. I expect one day she may 'tell you the lot'. It certainly sounds like she feels a whole lot safer in your M.


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength