Also, that reminds me...an American actress (I think Jennifer Love Hewitt but not sure) was promoting a book on tv several months ago, about dating. She said, "A man will tell you early on in a relationship who he is, but often we are so busy looking at the him he might become that we don't listen. We should listen!"
And if you listen, he has told you he does not want to be in a relationship, and he has told you he is unhappy with much of his life, and he has told you he wants drugs to give him good feelings. Is that the kind of partner you want??
