You can't have everything, where would you put it?

[ClingingToHope]

That's a good one. For a few weeks I was using the Serenity prayer:

God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.

I was just thinking, this time last year I was getting on average a phone call from STBXW a day or every other day. She'd run through this schedule, that schedule, drop an aside on something at work.

I was still in "this will all work out" mode. Now, the last six weeks or so I'm getting perhaps a phone call a week.

It is much better this way.