...it is ESSENTIAL that the information about the affair be shared CAREFULLY and with full recognition about the possible risks. I always recommend that, if information is shared, the person with whom it is shared is marriage-friendly, even in the face of infidelity. Nonetheless, it's still important to recognize potential risks.
I see many posters questioning conflicting advise. I think understanding all the available choices as well as the probability of improving the relationship is CRITICAL before taking action. I feel we all have our own point of view on what works and posters need to see as many options as possible and make the best choices for their sitch. I would like to see more insight from Michelle regarding the issue of exposing the truth of the affair to the wayward spouses family.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
