This I think is the reason why people are confused here and some are leaving.
That and if we made a list of the things people recommend here (and I am not talking about misinterpretations of advice like some of the charicatures of affair intervention being tossed around by some folks) that run counter to DB principles or (worse) are just plainly dysfunctional, then almost everybody would have their threads locked.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
