Wife is cheating, am sad but confused?

[HopelessInLove]

I have been gathering intel and am fairly certain W is cheating.

I have been trying to keep my composure and not let on that I know anything. I was confronted by W in a public place and she lit into me about my mother, and how my mother is acting toward her. I stood my ground and tried to establish some parameters. She said that she could not trust me and I told her that I could not trust her.

I have taken a more firm approach with W, now the W has been calling me more and texting and she is crying and sad and confused. But, W also said that all the changes I have made are only to get her back and that if W were to take me back then things would go right back to normal or how they were.

A few days before, I had mentioned about the work MWD does and how she may be able to help us. Then with public confrontation W states that she would read the book. I don't know if that would be a good idea. Anyone have there spouse read DR or DB?

I have heard W talking with friends and they are being the biased shoulder. I am a fraid of there influence.

We are talking more, and that is a step in the right direction.