My third thread, heavy on exposing H & OW is just gone.
Kinda crappy, as I reread it for the perspective, clarity and advice given. I had no idea that the forum was down so that certain threads could be removed.
I've registered @ marriagebuilders, AA is over there.
I have no regrets about exposing H's A to our friends and family. H plans on D'ing me to be w/OW anyway - got the papers 3 months ago. H was introducing OW as new gf 3 weeks after he forced me out of the house.
The thing exposing did in my case was confirm what everybody already suspected. It hasn't ended H's A, it didn't force the D filing. Appears that what actually did force the issue was OW. H & OW appeared to be fighting heavily for the 3 weeks prior to my getting served. I believe that would have happened whether or not I exposed.
It is forcing H to be somewhat accountable for his actions. H tried to lay all the blame on me for the breakdown of our M. Nowhere in there did H mention that his initial reason for wanting D was b/c of A & OW.
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10
