Whatitis Your right , it is what it is, every parent would love to sheild thier child from any and every hurt in life, but alas thats not going to happen, just as I am sure , even tho I was in my 40s, my parent's couldnt sheild me from the hurt of ex leaving, although I know it hurt them prob as much as me!
We can only do our very best to help them through it on their own timeline and their own way, like you Barb, when B is ready, he may want a R w/ Chuck, I know someone who didnt speak to his father for years, until he was going to get married and his future wife, urged him to bury the past w/ his father, they are so far doing pretty good!
Cant wait to hear what Josh parents say about the house! You all get along right? Did you ever decide on a name?
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life
