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No drama at all. Spending pretty much every free hour together.

Went to test drive a bunch of fun cars over the weekend. W is getting really excited to order her new wheels.

Baby shower on Sunday. Saw lots of old friends we haven't seen. W was acting like we were a "couple" again. Played pool and ping-pong and had tons of fun.

Last night she texted after work that she is having a drink with coworkers. I ignored it. An hour later she called and asked if I wanted to come there and join them for dinner. I paused for answer, because I really did not feel like going. She said, “That’s why I’m calling you from outside the place. I did not want to put you on a spot in front of them. If you don’t want to drive up I will leave now and we can meet somewhere else.”

I was fully expecting her to stay there without me, so I was caught off guard a bit. I told her that it would take me awhile to get there and that I would like to see them all. She said, “We will wait for you.”

This group of people from her office has been shielded from me for 5 months now. She claimed to have told everyone that we were done and that’s why I am not invited to any of their functions anymore although come of the people were friends with me before I even met her.

I did not know what to expect but decided to keep my head high.

Well, it turned out to be a very nice time and there was no one who looked at me or said anything awkward. I don’t think she ever told them anything about us. It was all angry bluff back then.

W initiated a lot of “we” talk and told stories from our past. It was all genuine with smiles and lot of eye contact. During the last work function I attended with her, she completely abandoned me for the entire night and we acted like total strangers. It has all changed.

So I am fully back in her circles now. It feels good and looks promising.

Now I have to figure out how to move back to the master bedroom.

wink cool






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