Change is in the air........

[ericmsant2]

GAG,

I need to somehow try to move this forward into the romantic zone from here

Be yourself GAG – no tactics…just be you. IMO, you cannot maintain tactics…you can only maintain a true change in yourself. So just be YOU. YOU should be good enough for him. Hell if you want reach over and plant one on him – I say f-it go for it. That will give him the hint! Just be ready for the response to it.

I feel like I am firmly in the friend zone.

What is the basis of every strong M?

Wondering why I even care at this point......but I've always been like a dog with a bone.

So GAG…I think I am wrong here BUT….are you doing this because you are like a dog with a bone? OR are you doing this because you love this man. Because really YOU DO CARE?

painstakingly slow

What is the old say….good things come to those who……

We talked a bit about how many people have mental health problems and I said that that is why I am not dating right now (probably bad DB'ing).

I would call this HONESTY…which is MUST be the foundation for any HEALTHY R. Sometime GAG, I think we need to throw out the DB’ing tactic and just be real but hey what do I know.

I'm frustrated that I feel stuck in the friend zone

How much does Love mean to YOU?

How much is enough?

Have those changes that YOU made for YOU really sunk in?

AND

FTR, did you say you don’t quit….so…Go get YOUR man GAG…Go snag his butt!

Thinking I might e-mail XH to ask if he wants to go biking or to a movie this weekend, since he has initiated table tennis the last 2-3 times. Any ideas? Are there any men out there with ideas????

GAG – I do not know you….but based on your post you sound pretty strong and pretty centered. Before I answer the above question…let me ask you one. Is the man that you want to be with, capable of accepting and appreciating a woman asking him out? Is that the type of man you want to be with? One that can respect a woman for her honesty, openness and strength?

My answer to your question…..Yes invite him out but do it in a very casual way…maybe start with a “what are you doing XXXX day” or something like that…see how he responds and then go for it.

Good luck,
Eric