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People CAN change... their perspective. Once their perspective changes, lots of little changes start to happen, and sometimes... big changes.

i dunno about this.
i've been told the opposite. people don't change. they get comfortable and stay in their own little world.

change requires looking at your flaws and taking action to correct them.

my h is too narcissitic to see his own flaws and believes a m should just work without him having to do anything.

Me.