I remember once sitting down and talking to my girls about what was happening between their mom and myself and their biggest fear was that I might walk out on them like a lot of their friends Dad's did. I told them "I can't promise you that we'll always be together like we are now, but I can promise you that I will never just leave!" My youngest said "if Daddy says he won't do it then he won't do it. My Daddy's not a liar!" It's so hard on them even when you've done everything right. My oldest told me a few weeks ago that she misses when we were a family like before. I said "I miss that to, but some times things just don't turn out the way you want them to. But, I think we do a pretty good job together, better than most families in our situation" She agreed. It tore my heart out but what is is!