Thanks Doodi. Sorry to hear you've had more drama.
I know the girls are already affected by the tension in our sitch. I guess I was thinking that once the sitch was "stabilized" it'd be easier on them. But I think there would always be an underlying current of frustration/guilt going on between my wife and I.
And what would I do if I met someone? Or if my W met someone? Twelve years is a long time. Hell, a year is a long time.
