Well, my mood carried over when I came home, and W could tell that I was troubled. When we were in bed, she asked me what I wanted her to do.
Just an observation. To me, this just seems like an odd question to ask. To me this sounds like your opinion mattered to her more than her own. And, that she's still really confused which means it could go either way yet.
Originally Posted By: pinhead
She said that there just wasn't that physical attraction, that mutual spark between us, and she thought it had never been there.
So when I read this, I think... don't believe everything she says. I said alot of things about my H to my therapist too - about 'sparks' and 'attraction' 'not being there any more'. I was wrong. They were there. They were just hidden by years of miscommunication and hurts. I just had to start getting my thinking sorted out to start seeing (and feeling) them again.
Be careful about pulling the plug on this too early, hey Pinhead?
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.
