[quote=NNP1965... He always said he didn't want this to be ugly, but divorce is ugly... [/quote]

NNP - you are so right about this. We can play nice, be as pleasant as we can throughout the process, but in the end we have a piece of paper that says Plantiff versus Defendant that replaces a paper that speaks of being united. At least you are moving forward towards a happier life for yourself. Wishing you the best!

BA