I told her she moved out on her own and it was her choice not mine. I also said to her at some point she needs to look in the mirror and realize she cannot blame me because she has been out of the house for one month now. I told her that her dad and sister and son were concerned about her and the fact that she does not communicate with them. I then said to her to google the term midlife crisis and avoidance personality and I hung up on her.
She is not going to listen to anything like this right now.
Most of us here have made this mistake and it usually takes learning this the hard way, I'm here to tell you....this will only put her more at odds with you.
There is nothing you can say or do to make her "get it".
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I got a call last night times 2 how the printer was not working and how she needed me to fix it. It was 1030 at night. I was not going to go but took the high road because she was stressed.
I'm not so sure if this is the "high road" or if it is fear, fixing, rescuing, and more of the same.
