At the crossroads of recon/divorce

[fullmoon]

Thank you Lostinlife, TH and gw for your replies.

Lostinlife- I too think he's too confused to decide where to go from here. Am I being too hopeful...?
He hasn't had a serious relationship before me and he seems totally lost.

TH- I'm so inspired by how your story is unfolding.
As for 'friendship', I don't believe in staying friends either... I've told him earlier on before nc, but am not sure if he remembers.

gw- I totally agree that I'm in control of when and how to drop the rope. I've told him that limbo is unhealthy and either way we must move on. (instead of saying it I should show it in action shouldn't I... so difficult to do)


Before all this, we lived in another country where the lifestyle didn't agree with us at all and was extremely stressful.
We separated amid heated arguments and left that country together--- H back to his parents' and I to another city.
H has been living at home all this time and with some intel, I know that there is no one else involved.

We have no children/ house together so there really is nothing that needs to be discussed.