Here's something that makes me curious. My W has been very interested with what I've been doing lately...sort of like 20 questions. Who am I talking to? Where am I going? What are my vacation days?...etc. Here's my question to the forum: Why is my W so interested in me?
B/c dropping the rope works! I just wished it didn't take a D before people finally did it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Hello and best wishes to all the newbies on this board. I haven't posted in about 10 months, so here's an update of what life is like for me since the divorce.
I have now been divorced for 5 months. The hardest part has been seeing my two children every other week. I have a one week on (and one week off) arrangement with my kids' mom. I focus on being the best Dad I can for my kids when I have them. My son (6) and daughter (4)are still adjusting to the arrangement, but we severely miss one other when apart. It's very hard, but I am very blessed to have two wonderful children.
In contrast, my own private life has been nothing short of spectacular. I've dated atleast a dozen different attractive women since my divorce. My friends are shocked at my transformation from a timid, hurt and depressed individual to a confident and happy new me. I'm now seeing a beautiful blond-haired, blue-eyed Anesthesiologist who thinks the world of me. I've gone from being someone's trash to someone's treasure in a very short period of time. Again, I'm blessed to have met such a wonderful individual.
For those who are still struggling with their WAS, I suggest letting them go. They're most likely gone anyways. Trust me...I know it's hard, but it's the only way move on with life. And you never know...they just might come back on their own accord.
LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009
