Not a big fan of dating prior to actually being divorced.
I am glad you are feeling better, and in the event you actually divorce, my advice not to date prior to divorce will probably seem silly to you.
If you reconcile, however, it opens a virtual Pandora's box of new problems, and... the bottom line for me personally is that I would feel like I was "needy" if I did that (e.g. as if I were giving in to the insecurity of my own ego instead of just being me and being happy and truly detatched).
Que sara, sara. But that is my 2 cents.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
