Hey Faith

Welcome to this board.

As you already know there are some great people here.

I would encourage you to read through all the resource threads Cadet gave you.

Your wife sounds like she is in crisis of some kind. It may not be MLC.

Only you can determine that by what you read and observe from your W.

The advice is the same. Detach and work on you.

This gets better I promise.

Also read when you can. Read others threads who post here. There is good stuff posted to others that can be relevent to you.

Then

Post to others when you feel comfortable.

We are all here for each other.

Keep Faith.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am