still all very quiet at this end, ex has obviously checked out for good. son is doing well at his new college, he seems happy and okay, doesnt mention his dad at all nowadays, its sad but true. hope the ex can live with his guilt and shame, and hopefully he wont come running to son when he is a lonely old man xx
Just a quick pop in to keep my thread alive. Nothing as changed and doubt it ever will, still no contact to son from the ex, still no contact from the ex to his old aunt, the old home sold and new people have moved in and are ripping it from together, good luck to them and hope they make it as good as it could be and enjoy their time there. son does say that one day when he has some money he intends to buy back our old home, I think being thrown out of there and having it taken away from him cut son up more than I realised. so ex has no property, no car, no money and no family, all he as is the woman he took off for, ah well life goes on at least myself and son are happy and can hold our heads up in public xxxx
Mandy, Yes, you most definitely can hold you head up high any where you go. You and your son have so much to be proud in the way that you both have handled the situation that you were tossed.
I agree, your son is still quite upset about moving out of his home. Some day, he will keep that promise and will get his home back.
As for your "x", he's got a lot to think about and I do not think he's ready to face himself in the mirror.
Take care of yourself and I'm glad you and your son are okay.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Maybe Cadet will stop by and let you know how to start a new thread. He's very good at explaining it.
I am so glad that you and your son are doing well. You have really been put through it and you came out the other side better than OK. That's a wonderful testament to your beautiful spirit!
Go to the first page of this thread. Copy the url: That is the thing at the top in your browser that says http://www.divorcebusting......
then On the main page of this forum(MLC) it says at the top "NEW TOPIC" click on that.
Paste the url that you copied into your new thread. Write whatever you want, post that thread.
Then copy the URL from the new thread. Paste it on the last page of your old thread. Then on the bottom of your old thread it say Notify. Click that and ask the moderators to lock your thread for length.
