Over the past few weeks I have just been getting into a routine. Saturday soccer for d3, sunday divorce recovery at church(when kids not sick), so unbelievably tired after teaching all day, then an extra class for some extra money, home, dinner and by the time 7 pm is here, i'm passing out with the kids.
as far as h and i, we are barely civil, i bring kids to my work, he picks them up there, he brings them back to me at end of work day, basically no communication, did you deposit money, pay for kids to go to doctor, if we begin to conversate, it turns ugly.
i have this week off, fall break, he hasn't seen kids since friday, has not asked about them or want to see them. better for me wiht no contact.
over the past month had a horrible interaction with h and his entire family: so i put a boundary of never picking the kids up at his house, since his family came at me, h punched my car window all infront of the kids.
my boss even wanted to have h play dj at a school function, she didn't mention anything to me, found out from h, went and talked to my boss, told her point blank him or me, another boundary. i have the right to be or feel safe secure at my job without him being there more then he all ready is.
d3 is going to be a peer model at my work.
i've thought about dating but i really don't have the time or energy. if i can't get a work out in but maybe 1 time a week, dating not going toh appen.
Me 39 H 30 d 18 previous marriage d 2.5 with H s 4.5months with H Seperation Nov09 july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline
