I'm very lucky in that I've found the *Thelma* to my *Louise* so I have the companionship and the fun and she DOES have my back. It's so much fun and good for me to be without a male in my life right now. Since I'm having so many experiences with her I don't feel the "need" to be on the lookout for my next relationship and it's nice. YES, I definitely miss the intimacy, but I feel that I'm on my way to being healed and I'll have that again.... I'm just waiting for the time to be right and the signs to be shown to me. My XH has been gone for 17 months and at this point I don't think dating will feel like cheating to me. After all, I wasn't the one who cheated, lied, and hid marital assets. NOPE! That wasn't me......
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
Your reference to Thelma and Louise caught my eye!!! I loved that movie and have a friend that I could call my Thelma too! We have grown apart over the years but when we do get together, it is like we saw each other yesterday!
You sound great and I can tell you are enjoying life!!!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
I am having a blast with my BFF. I haven't had a friend like her in over 20 years and we just keep each other moving forward.
This is such an interesting thread, isn't it? I have my own thread, but very few stop by. I LOVE life and I can't believe how far I've come in 17 months.
Hope you are doing well; things do get better with time.
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
