She's in MLC, but I was weak. Now what?

[ericmsant2]

Watz up Crushed!

Ok, so I'm ready to come back slightly less angry

Damn dude.. I’m gonna miss those angry post you used to make. LOL

and feeling some sense of accomplishment from completing a longer than expected house project.

Let me know if you want to come up to the northeast (CT to be exact)…I have a ton of chit I need done.

WTF have you all been doing in my absence?

Moving forward with a D….that’s all…but better than that….WORKING ON ME – dude. Try it sometime.

I worry this is confusing to the kids and my IC is thinking same. We act like a family yet we are not together at night.

That makes YOUR family different. Not necessary right or wrong.

There's no R discussion, just daily events and the kids. However, there's always some other distraction.

No R discussion is GOOD. You cannot talk your way out of this. The reality is that she needs to want this again and only YOUR actions will make HER feel that way.

If I ever doubted my own self-esteem, I have to laugh at the pathetic OM watching his girlfriend spend days with me- yet they are in love.

Can you understand that right now…she feels like she is love?

My IC thinks it's time for an ultimatum. My piousness and benevolence has been tested for too long according to her. Not so sure.

Never ring a bell that cannot be unrung. Your not sure…then don’t. Believe me, you cannot “shock her” into waking up. TRUST ME – It ain’t gonna work.

I'm saddest about her apparent acceptance that she can attempt a family atmosphere amid an affair.

I know that feeling buddy…I live it daily. Guess what…..look inside YOU. Stop trying to fix this…just really focus on YOU and YOU alone – let her GO.

She needs a 2x4, but I'm not the one to provide it.

IF she ever wakes up……no one will need to hit her with the 2x4…she will do that to herself. IMO, they all wake up…we just never know when.