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#2084980 10/05/10 10:47 PM
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He's 100% not the man I married nor the man that fathered my beautiful kids. He's basically out to completely screw me and hurt me any way he can. He has several OW now. Not sure how many are PA or EA but it doesn't matter. I've waited quite a while for something to click and me to go into CMA mode. And today is the day. I've contacted attorneys and I will be filing for CS and Spousal Support this week & will inquire about filing for Legal Separation. He officially said he does not plan on attending the baby's birth. His loss. Its a shame too bc on her ultrasounds she already looks exactly like him. But again his loss.

His actions are now affecting my pregnancy due to so much stress and I cant let that happen.

I've been sitting here hoping we can reconcile but things just keep getting worse. It's time to face I've tried all I can & there's nothing left. Time to take legal action bc I cannot trust him at all.

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Good for you for protecting yourself.

Take care of you and those girls, and take care of the sweet bundle of joy.

Peace
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Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
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Don't know what to say other than I'm so sorry this happened. It's all about you and the kids/baby now. F him, do what you must to survive.

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This is not unusual for MLC. They get ugly and evil. It is a coping mechanism for them so as to not face their issues. Detach, take legal action when necessary is the only answer. Praying for you and your baby.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11


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