"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
I've missed you. I feel like it's been ages since I've had access to your wisdom. Things moving in my sitch. Catch up on my thread.
As to your 'anniversery', I'm glad you were able to get through it with panache' and dignity. Starting to think I'll not see my 'anniversery' as a married woman.
I reiterate Eric "You are a blessing". And if your H doesn't know that, he's an idiot.
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
Hi SA - I had my bombversary recently as well. Hard to believe that it's been that long....but I must agree that we have come a long way. Now we are stronger to deal with what they trow at us next...
(((hugs)))
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
I'm sorry about your bombaversary. Having just had one myself, I know how it can affect your emotions. This year I decided to buy myself a nice bombaversary gift. It was something nice that I did for myself to say "I'm proud of how you handled yourself in the aftermath of the bomb".
Seeking, I would like to suggest that you do the same. Go out and buy yourself something special ---- big or small, it doesn't matter, as long as it is something that you like!
Good suggestion GAG. I suggest a full day at a Day Spa. Go alone or take a friend, but treat yourself. Nothing like a little mud bath to pep you right up.
