Thank you for the kind words on my thread. It is comforting to know that none of us walks alone.
Yes, stick to you guns and protect yourself. If your H didn't want his dirty laundry aired, well he shouldn't have soiled it in the first place. That's his problem.
Remind him gently that there is a way to keep from from airing it and that's to drop it.
Is there a reason for his big rush to D? Do you think ow is pushing him hard for it?
Punkin, it's wonderful to hear you say you're happy!