Hey Punkin,

I missed you, too!

Thank you for the kind words on my thread. It is comforting to know that none of us walks alone.

Yes, stick to you guns and protect yourself. If your H didn't want his dirty laundry aired, well he shouldn't have soiled it in the first place. That's his problem.

Remind him gently that there is a way to keep from from airing it and that's to drop it.

Is there a reason for his big rush to D? Do you think ow is pushing him hard for it?

Punkin, it's wonderful to hear you say you're happy! smile