I'm very lucky in that I've found the *Thelma* to my *Louise* so I have the companionship and the fun and she DOES have my back. It's so much fun and good for me to be without a male in my life right now. Since I'm having so many experiences with her I don't feel the "need" to be on the lookout for my next relationship and it's nice. YES, I definitely miss the intimacy, but I feel that I'm on my way to being healed and I'll have that again.... I'm just waiting for the time to be right and the signs to be shown to me. My XH has been gone for 17 months and at this point I don't think dating will feel like cheating to me. After all, I wasn't the one who cheated, lied, and hid marital assets. NOPE! That wasn't me......
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
