Had some MAJOR backslides, site was down and I lost control. Basically I had been dark, came home to her stuff unpacked fyon the drawers, discovered in the checkbook, she put a down payment on a new place. I called to inform her she could have let me know before using our funds so I don't overdraw. Of course there was a fight over money... She also told me she would be staying until Nov 1st and stopped her checks from going into acct. I said woah, you ate responsible for half the bills while u live here. She FLIPPED saying age needed money to get her new place and furnish it. Seriously?! Not my problem. She asked for 2000 to get beds, I said no unless we have an agreement in writing, I'm not giving you anything. She cried saying she has no help and I should help her. She was upset that I wasn't looking out for her. Pleeeaaase!
Anyway, i was having a tough time in the house alone, everythingbrrmindef me of her. So my sister and niece came over for the weekend and helped clean the whole house. The bedroom, completely scrubbed snd changed around, new photos etc. I removed all of her stuff from the room, which she basically had been packing already. Same color walls, but better. It's still tough being here, but the change in view helped.
My wife came home as we were changing things and she did not look happy. I asked her where she wanted me to put get stuff, and she said to put it in the car, I did... She had been taking stuff to her dads snd storing it there. She told her attorney I kicked her out. Lol not the case... O did ask her to leave previously, but did nor force her to go. She lied to setup her move... I called my attorney eith the update.
