Here another concern of mine, I just wanted to get opinions on. I'm concerned if I don't establish some sort of relationship with my W at some point, the OM (not confirmed but very likely) will be taking part in activities I would rather be a part of. At this point I did tell her I did not want to hang out as a"family"... Honestly because it's too painful for me after it's over. Just wanna get some thoughts on the topic. Going on 2 days of this site being offline, you never know what you have until it's gone!!!
