At the crossroads of recon/divorce

[fullmoon]

Hi all… my H and I have been separated for 6 months now, most of which with little or no contact.
We are separated in different cities, 8 hours drive away.
Since separating, I have been doing really well with GAL moving on with my life… until we met the other day for the first time since separating 6 months ago, when I had to move the remaining of my belongings from his place.

Both our feelings are still there, and it is still so strong.

Our meeting was more than amicable… H wore a new shirt, cleaned his car inside out (usually very messy) to pick me up, opening the door for me… basically he was flirting with me without realising what he was doing.

At his place, H has rearranged his furnitures, but admitted that he still has photos of me by the bed, and the 'you are the best husband' card I gave him… saying 'it's hard but it's ok'…???

Throughout our meeting, he joyfully kept talking about the good things from the past, 'remember we went there?' etc, and it was as if we never separated… but without any physical contact.

With all this, I have suggested we can try for another year... to which he whispered 'that's a good idea', but after a week of being apart, it's back to 'we can't do this, let's file' again.

I'm just so confused… he is now adamant on coming to my city to help me fix a few things in my house because I'm still 'a precious part of his life', and he 'doesn't want to lose my friendship'.

He hates talking anything about R, so I know he will just come and go… I'm wondering perhaps I should tell him not to come, as it will set me back in moving on.
Since this has happened, he has buried himself with work… he doesn't take my calls, only responds when necessary to any forms of communication. He stopped contacting our common friends, and emailed them for the first time after I saw him the other day.


I'm lost as to what to do… should I cut him off and move on as it feels like he's stringing me along?
please help me with any insights.