NOW, he's emailed me wanting to meet me at one of our lawyer's in town. I refused, telling him my lawyer would have to be present and his time wasn't free. Told him our main contention would be maintenence and displacement and he knew it. If he no longer felt we should meet, then fine.

I refuse, CAN'T sign any sort of agreement before November 17th to retain health insurance. He doesn't want his dirty laundry aired. Hopefully, this will all work out. Damn it, as happy as I am, I still miss the sob.

ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011