((((Opti))) so glad to hear from you. So sorry to hear about your worries. One thing I do know is that you are an amazing woman and not giving yourself enough credit. I know things are very scary, but I bet you're doing a great job.

So your H is on the east coast? Mine is on a boat on the lakes.

Hard to believe your DS is 8 years old, mine are 15 and 16 and both driving. I finally had H served with D papers just yesterday. What a horrible couple of years it's been, but I know that I am doing the right thing.

I sent you a friend request under my real name...


Me 54
DS19 and DS17
Married 06/1989
Divorced 01/2011