Wow, so sorry to hear about the text interception. I have not followed your thread in the past but since we are from the same state I figured I would support a fellow hoosier:)
My lawyer also continually dragged her feet on a lot of things and it took almost 18 months to finalise. I still have not gotten my part of the divorce settlement (401k) and that is because my L is not returning my calls! I don't get that at all.
And to top it all, I found out yesterday about my X-wifes new BF from my poor little D8.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final