So sorry to hear that your dad has quit fighting, but after a number of years I don't blame anyone who is terminally ill. Watching my mom go downhill in renal failure for so long is not quite as drastic as cancer, but not any easier. Again, so sorry.
I hope your H took what you said to heart. There is absolutely no excuse for him being verbally abusive toward you. You have put up with an enormous amount of sh!t from him and have worked so hard to make changes and be loving and forgiving. He should be begging at your feet everyday, not yelling at you.
I hope that him quitting that night job will lead to more closeness between you.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Your son sounds like an incredible boy, it seems like you have a wonderful connection.
The connection with your dad is strong also...the more love you have between you, the harder it is to imagine a life without him. My heart is with you...