He said plainly...not good. He went on to explain. He said that when he had made the decision to leave 9 months ago, he had a lot of things he wanted to change. He had a lot of "complaints" about his life and the way things were. He disliked that we seemed to be stuck in our house all the time. He disliked that we never seemed to do anything social. And he was going to change that. And in those 9 months he stated, "I've become more of a hermit". He said that while he wanted to change and get out and do fun things, he's not succeeded. Meanwhile, I am going out and doing things that have been on his "list of fun thigs to do" for years.
LOL.
I guess he has to stop blaming you for that much
I think he needs to get out and do fun stuff all by himself, IMO.
Not that you can't do "fun stuff" together, but it's an easy thing to blame YOU for him not doing fun stuff if he won't take the initiative ever and won't do anything alone.
Last edited by TimeHeals; 10/05/1010:03 PM.
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