That's really where I am - the GAL stage. I have some great friends that are helping me with this. It's been hard not to obsess over this. But I am getting a little better. No I'm not...who am I kidding? I think about this 24/7! I've at least become numb to it, but I can't stop thinking about it. I do think I'm doing better about not talking about it all the time. I try to focus on what is going on in the other person's life versus what is happening in mine. This week I have a VERY active schedule that is going to force me to be better detach. But I haven't stopped checking his email several times per day (I have his password) and reading all of the emails going back and forth between him and OW talking about how much they love each other, how they are each other's soul mates, how she can't wait to take his name! I know this isn't helping me move on, but I've convinced myself I need the intel to prove the affair to have a greater financial gain in the D.
Me:38 H: 45 OW:34 S:4 Bonus S: 12 and 16 2nd M for both Together 12 yrs M: 6 EA suspected: 5/10 confirmed: 7/2/10 Separated: 8/12/10
