cheated on, lied to, and now I am moving on

[awest1217]

Let's see...
Parent teacher conferences went well. I always like meeting parents because I get along well with them and they leave knowing I want what is best for their student so that is always good.

My step-sister and family moved in with little drama. There was a little, but I was not involved because it was late at night when my brother in law came with the truck and I have S to get to bed so I got out of that. Otherwise nothing too major.

I got a new dining room table from my step-sister (their old one). It is nice because I can give my in-laws their table back and not have to continually deal with them.

After finding out about Disney over Father's Day. I really haven't talked to H much. Actually it is bothering me that he hasn't even contacted me to see how S is doing. I don't want him to know about me, but if he really cares why doesn't he call why do I have to always be the one to force S to call him?

I e-mailed my L asking what the hold up was (in nicer terms). She said that her house was burglarized and was behind. She said the property agreement will be ready as soon as she gets the new contract from H and his 403b information. I text H to have him send it to her (no point in increasing my L cost if we are being civil). He then accidentally sends me the text he means to send to OW telling her about what I am asking for and wondering why. I forwarded it back and told him it was inappropriate and from now on he can deal with my L because I am not trying to hurt him and even if OW has gotten a D her D will be different because no kids are involved. I need the salary for child support and the 403b we decided to add a bunch to his because my check was where we paid bills so since we were married and both would get that money we agreed to put the money into his 403b for retirement. Needless to say I was upset and really haven't talked at all since then. I called him yesterday because his car insurance was reinstated and he text me to tell me he got the recall letter for my car.

The L did say that it looks like i will be getting $20 more a month than I am now, which really means $70 a month because before when our cell phones were together it was $500 for support and cell, but now it will be $520 for just support and the cells are split. Looking good for me I don't want him to suffer, but I deserve what he should have been helping to pay especially since he has only one bill he is responsible for and he has take OW on at least 5 small one day vacations and the 5 day trip to FL all in a 17 month period. He should have been helping me some through that time since the house is also in his name.

Finally, the car is getting fixed for the stalling on Saturday. I am taking it in at 8 am to get it diagnosed and then it will get fixed. YEAH!!!

Overall a good week, and a really good day. It seems the closer the D comes the more calm I am. I am more worried about the ambiguities. I know I will still grieve my marriage, but a good time right now.