After 1 1/2 days of my W being unusually upbeat and friendly I knew today is her day to see her T, and she can't go there without answers. So I got the txt message saying that she made an appt. with the mediator for next week and asked if that was OK with me.
I told her yes, and that I also spoke to a second mediator that I want to meet with so we have another option to choose from. She was agreeable to that.
I then told her that I asked the mediator some questions and that this decision (of hers) to destroy her family goes against every single cell in my body, but I will do it for you. She said OK.
Was that an OK thing to say? I want her to know how wrong a decision this will ultimately be for her and the happiness of our two boys. I am sure in mediation a lot more will come out.
Thinking about detatching 100% starting today. Even though my legal advisor told me to "play nice" and be agreeable, it doesn't mean I have to make the day-to-day grind easy for her by helping/doing everything for her. She can start fending for herself. I need to go missing, I think.
Anyone out there go through mediation? Any experiences to share?
