Even if you don't want to OFFENSE-ively throw out ultimatums, there's certainly nothing wrong with RESPONDING with what your boundaries are (no contact with OW) if HE decides he wants to "re-assess" the marriage. In fact, it's entirely appropriate.
Puppy
Care should be taken on how it is presented, but I agree. There is no point in having a discussion about "us" as long as there is another person involved.
Originally Posted By: Albuquerque
I would like folk's opinions on this. Is this forward movement? In a way I suppose. But like I posted in my last post, he is still very very broken.
They can't ever let you get too far away. He feels you distancing and is now curious, he is making an attempt to reel you back in closer. As soon as he knows he "has" you again, boom, it will be right back to crazy and ow.
At this time, there are too many red flags to believe otherwise.
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I know he wants to have some alcohol in him to have the discussion, but that doesn't seem like a good idea.
Here is a obvious one.
This is the yo yo game that they play. Be careful.
