I can't imagine what you are going through. How difficult of a situation, but you seem to be very rational in you thinking. I personally would not visit my ex in this situation unless he asked me to. I would perhaps send a card or a plant indicating this. If you need me type of thing..... How awkward of a situation. I also want to say that I would guess that your ex is having a lot of feelings about you at this time also.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
