TRUSTING...hang tough. One day my X is fighting me about dropping our kids off at my sis' house if I am running late from work. The next day (?bipolar) she asks me if she can drop them off there.
Relax. Child support is not about time. It is about clothes, dental appointments, school supplies, etc.
I wouldn't lose sleep except for the fact that many of our X's just can't let go and move on.
Supporting you. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
As of yet, there is no scheduled court date. Ex's lawyer is requesting mediation and that is for the judge to determine.
I am just getting sick of the whole court thing. This is the 3rd time my ex is dragging me back to court. The last 2 times he lost big time and was very humiliated.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
I am very sorry he is still acting like an utter fool. I can understand how you feel. He's not gaining anything but more debt, but in his mind....he thinks he's controlling you. What a waste of your time and the judicial system's time over petty stuff. He really needs to grow up, take ownership of his issues and get on w/his life.
Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Thank you Snodderly. I don't understand his actions at all. He is in major debt and has hired a new lawyer for this. You hit the nail on the head because the only thing this can be about is control.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Sorry you are having to go back to court. He just cant seem to give up his control.
((Take care Trusting))
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
Trusting, He would rather lose it all then to give up what he perceives as control. It's really the only thing, in his mind, that he can control right now.
Protect yourself. As I said earlier, document.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Just an update, still no scheduled court date. I am hoping the judge throws the request out.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
I need all the prayers I can get. This MLC thing never ends. Because they have no peace, they make sure you have no peace. If my ex was oh so happy with bimbo, none of this would be happening.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
