Girl you have been on my mind a lot lately. It is soooo good to see you here.
It is ok to take another look, you know.
It sounds like your H is making steps to improve himself. That is always a good thing.
You have taken your steps, are walking your path, and I don't believe that you will stop that if you choose to see what happens.
Trust, it is a hard thing to rebuild. It can be done though. It means allowing yourself to take the risk. And it is a risk you are going to have to take, with your H or someone else, unless you decide to remain alone.
Don't go into it blindly, but slowly and with your eyes wide open.
You are strong enough to make this a different marriage than what it was...
I will talk to you soon, my friend.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox