John, Do you really think giving her cash was a good idea? Did that really improve the situation in any way? You are not getting it.
She is using you and playing you. Wake up man! Her problems are not your problems, and certainly not yours to solve or even offer choices for her.
You have all the advice you need in this thread, but you continue to ignore it. You probably have lost the help of all the vets on this board. Everyone comes here to post or read, because it is like a train wreck. We all want to see what absurdity is next.
