Backslid? You sent her a six page letter telling her why you love her? You sent her gifts? An emotional survey?

Here's a better idea. Tell her that if she cheats on you again, you'll always love her and be willing to be with her. All the respect you earned in that phone call just went down the loo.

Knowing this, you need to craft a damage control plan. Hell, just because she says she loves you doesn't mean you can go all melty man.

Use these forums when you get the urge to do "something." Someone here will always be ready to tell you if it's a great idea, or if you're sabotaging yourself.